Comments on: What Women Want

By: Amber

Amber — Fri, 08 Dec 2006 22:20:19 +0000

I’m not sure that, with proper communication, this is all that rare. I think the problem is with the ingrained patriarchal tropes.

Right you are, Thomas.

I think we could, all of us, use a little more Communication 101 and a little less “OMG teh s3x!!1!”

By: hexy

hexy — Fri, 08 Dec 2006 11:13:00 +0000

I was drinking a few weeks back with a friend who is a furry and his new play partners. I think I was lucky to get out of there with my furginity intact… once they saw that the chick in the bunny shirt could wiggle her nose they were strangely attentive.

By: Koneko

Koneko — Fri, 08 Dec 2006 07:31:46 +0000

Why do you hate Jesus Thomas, he just wants love!? ; )
Naughty asphyxiation love.

By: Soullite

Soullite — Thu, 07 Dec 2006 15:35:02 +0000

It appears my interpretation of this post was wildly incorrect and I was overly accusatory and harsh. For that I apologize. I have always been a very combative person, and it often leads me to misjudge people. It’s something I’ll always have to work on.

If you can’t be hones about your sexuality with a person, you really shouldn’t be with them. How can you, if you’re that terrified they’d belittle you because you want to dress up in a bunny costume (I’m not assuming that’s an actual fetish of the posters, I’m just using a pre-existing example as it is a real one to some plushie types). Sexual satisfaction is very important in relationships, it’s hard to have a successful one if you don’t feel fulfilled. Nobody should ever do anything that makes them uncomfortable, but nobody should ever ridicule someone for bringing something up either.

By: SJ

SJ — Thu, 07 Dec 2006 08:42:43 +0000

Aww, I am torn here. Love Feministe, and think Violent Acres is not worth discussing or acknowledging. Yet here I am…because this entry is funny. Woot!

By: piny

piny — Thu, 07 Dec 2006 00:19:12 +0000

Yup.

By: mythago

mythago — Thu, 07 Dec 2006 00:16:21 +0000

I think I laughed so hard milk came out of *the baby’s* nose.

Tagline of the month.

By: Thomas

Thomas — Wed, 06 Dec 2006 19:04:24 +0000

Jesus wants you to choke your wife

He can find his own play partners. Also, if the guy wants to do a crucifixion scene complete with blood-spattering scourge and nails, that’s fine by me, but to do it in public and subject a whole neighborhood to it is in poor taste. I’m sure he could have found some Roman soldiers who were up for it behind closed doors.

Only two people weigh in on decisions about whether I choke my wife. Neither of them is a major religious figure.

By: Dennis

Dennis — Wed, 06 Dec 2006 18:50:11 +0000

Thomas,

Why do you hate America? Jesus wants you to choke your wife.

By: Thomas

Thomas — Wed, 06 Dec 2006 18:18:54 +0000

what if HE’S the one who wants his hair pulled and to be called a dirty little slut?

Yep, those essentialists don’t like those of us with Y chromosomes who are more bottom than top. Especially when we’re high achievers in traditionally male-dominated professions — it kind of undermines their theory.