I remember so many guys who, having groped me or my friends, were really shocked and offended that we got angry with them.

I’ve had that kind of response when I’ve confronted street harassers. It’s like they have no idea that their behaviour is unacceptable.

I had one guy follow me half way home from a bar, making a nuisance out of himself. The next time I went back to that bar he approached the friend I was with to tell her how much I had scared him by saying no when he asked for my phone number. Grr.

And Aishwarya, like everyone else has said, your reaction by no means make you a bad feminist. The groper’s the bad guy in this situation.

The group was doing a scene and suddenly one of the male actors (who was standing behind a female actor) put his hands full on her breasts. Right in front of the audience. For a good while.

I remember it caught the attention of myself and my friends. The *only* explaination that maybe we could devise was perhaps the pair were dating. It was just so obvious and yet the scene continued as if it was “okay.”

same ol’ shit though, i expect.

I just don’t get the groping thing. I really don’t.

Joy’s example shows really well what’s going on. The assailant gets off on the power.

Kristen, we have these guys instead.