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		<title>By: &#8220;Pro-Life&#8221; Myth No. 3: Pro-choicers hate babies! &#171; The Radical Notion</title>
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		<dc:creator>&#8220;Pro-Life&#8221; Myth No. 3: Pro-choicers hate babies! &#171; The Radical Notion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 02:50:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Jadoremonchat</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/04/11/responsibility-and-punishment/#comment-164826</link>
		<dc:creator>Jadoremonchat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 07:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@akeyuuu 
You took the words right out of my mouth! 

&quot; A child is the greatest gift God can bestow on either a parent or a nation.&quot;

&quot;To whisk a child off to an abortionist to help her avoid &lt;strong&gt;the consequences of her actions&lt;/strong&gt; is in no way compassionate or caring.&quot; (emphasis mine) 

I call a logical phallacy. A=/=non-A. Something cannot be the greatest gift from God whilist simultaneously being a punishment for someone&#039;s alleged &quot;stupidity.&quot;

On a similar note, a year ago I went to a baby shower for a 17 year-old friend of mine  from high school who got pregnant (I was 18 at the time). Even though my friend and her boyfriend were Christian, they both wanted an abortion. But of course their parents wouldn&#039;t let them have one, and from what I understand their parents basically gave them this same argument. I was crying during the shower because I was so pissed off that someone would punish their teenager for having sex by forcing them to experience something so drastically life-altering as bringing another human being into the world, especially against their will. 

Personally, I wouldn&#039;t punish my teenager for having sex or having an unplanned pregnancy, but if a person were so inclined, wouldn&#039;t a simple, &quot;If you want an abortion, I&#039;ll take you to get one, and we&#039;ll pick up a nuva ring while we&#039;re there,  but when we get home you&#039;re grounded for a week and I&#039;ll be taking possession of your car keys for a month,&quot; suffice? I mean, Jesus o.0</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@akeyuuu<br />
You took the words right out of my mouth! </p>
<p>&#8221; A child is the greatest gift God can bestow on either a parent or a nation.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;To whisk a child off to an abortionist to help her avoid <strong>the consequences of her actions</strong> is in no way compassionate or caring.&#8221; (emphasis mine) </p>
<p>I call a logical phallacy. A=/=non-A. Something cannot be the greatest gift from God whilist simultaneously being a punishment for someone&#8217;s alleged &#8220;stupidity.&#8221;</p>
<p>On a similar note, a year ago I went to a baby shower for a 17 year-old friend of mine  from high school who got pregnant (I was 18 at the time). Even though my friend and her boyfriend were Christian, they both wanted an abortion. But of course their parents wouldn&#8217;t let them have one, and from what I understand their parents basically gave them this same argument. I was crying during the shower because I was so pissed off that someone would punish their teenager for having sex by forcing them to experience something so drastically life-altering as bringing another human being into the world, especially against their will. </p>
<p>Personally, I wouldn&#8217;t punish my teenager for having sex or having an unplanned pregnancy, but if a person were so inclined, wouldn&#8217;t a simple, &#8220;If you want an abortion, I&#8217;ll take you to get one, and we&#8217;ll pick up a nuva ring while we&#8217;re there,  but when we get home you&#8217;re grounded for a week and I&#8217;ll be taking possession of your car keys for a month,&#8221; suffice? I mean, Jesus o.0</p>
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		<title>By: Tapetum</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/04/11/responsibility-and-punishment/#comment-164401</link>
		<dc:creator>Tapetum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 01:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>chad - my suspicion is that the pro-life movement would theoretically embrace the idea of a mechanical gestation while simultaneously insuring that as few women as possible actually had access to it - for reasons of safety, control, encouraging teenage sex, etc. etc. Check out the reasons given for opposing the HPV vaccine while giving lip-service to the goodness of the idea of preventing cervical cancer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>chad &#8211; my suspicion is that the pro-life movement would theoretically embrace the idea of a mechanical gestation while simultaneously insuring that as few women as possible actually had access to it &#8211; for reasons of safety, control, encouraging teenage sex, etc. etc. Check out the reasons given for opposing the HPV vaccine while giving lip-service to the goodness of the idea of preventing cervical cancer.</p>
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		<title>By: chad</title>
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		<dc:creator>chad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 13:36:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;You can’t convince me that, say, Randall Terry would be thrilled at the idea of letting women slough off a pregnancy for a machine to do the gestating and go off on their merry way.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Right, I&#039;m sure he wouldn&#039;t be thrilled. But the question is whether he would nevertheless prefer that a woman undergo the machine gestation rather than an abortion. If he would, then punishment is not his only aim. And, if he would &lt;em&gt;strongly&lt;/em&gt; prefer the machine gestation, then punishment is not his &lt;em&gt;primary&lt;/em&gt; aim (though it might still be a consideration). Now I might be misinterpreting what I know of the pro-life movement, but (as I said) it seems just clear that they (even including the leadership) would strongly prefer that the woman undergo the machine gestation procedure. So &quot;punishment&quot; is not their primary aim. It seems that the commenters here are saying that I am misinterpreting the pro-life movement when I suggest that they would strongly prefer the new procedure (despite not being thrilled with it). I&#039;m not sure how to tell who&#039;s right about that without doing a survey or something.</description>
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<p>Right, I&#8217;m sure he wouldn&#8217;t be thrilled. But the question is whether he would nevertheless prefer that a woman undergo the machine gestation rather than an abortion. If he would, then punishment is not his only aim. And, if he would <em>strongly</em> prefer the machine gestation, then punishment is not his <em>primary</em> aim (though it might still be a consideration). Now I might be misinterpreting what I know of the pro-life movement, but (as I said) it seems just clear that they (even including the leadership) would strongly prefer that the woman undergo the machine gestation procedure. So &#8220;punishment&#8221; is not their primary aim. It seems that the commenters here are saying that I am misinterpreting the pro-life movement when I suggest that they would strongly prefer the new procedure (despite not being thrilled with it). I&#8217;m not sure how to tell who&#8217;s right about that without doing a survey or something.</p>
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		<title>By: ahunt</title>
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		<dc:creator>ahunt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 21:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GNoc...get back to us when you have discerned the distinction between unwanted pregnancy and children of one&#039;s own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GNoc&#8230;get back to us when you have discerned the distinction between unwanted pregnancy and children of one&#8217;s own.</p>
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		<title>By: akeeyu</title>
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		<dc:creator>akeeyu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 05:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the logic of &quot;OMG, the babies aren&#039;t a punishment, they&#039;re a gift!  Also, those stupid whores should be forced to have them as a punishment for their whoritude.&quot;  Or something.

But here&#039;s what I really love: If you believe that abortion is akin to infanticide, shouldn&#039;t you be GLAD that the women who want abortions are having them?  Because by anti-choicer logic, those women want to kill babies.  Do they really think that women who want to kill babies should...have babies?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the logic of &#8220;OMG, the babies aren&#8217;t a punishment, they&#8217;re a gift!  Also, those stupid whores should be forced to have them as a punishment for their whoritude.&#8221;  Or something.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s what I really love: If you believe that abortion is akin to infanticide, shouldn&#8217;t you be GLAD that the women who want abortions are having them?  Because by anti-choicer logic, those women want to kill babies.  Do they really think that women who want to kill babies should&#8230;have babies?</p>
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		<title>By: Helen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 03:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;an experience that changes their bodies and their health, that requires significant lifestyle changes

I know what you mean here, but having a baby requires significant &lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;life&lt;/i&gt; changes, not just life&lt;i&gt;style&lt;/i&gt; changes. Using the word &quot;lifestyle&quot; changes just gives opportunities to the &quot;abortion-for-trivial-reasons&quot; mob to take you out of context.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>an experience that changes their bodies and their health, that requires significant lifestyle changes</p>
<p>I know what you mean here, but having a baby requires significant </i><i>life</i> changes, not just life<i>style</i> changes. Using the word &#8220;lifestyle&#8221; changes just gives opportunities to the &#8220;abortion-for-trivial-reasons&#8221; mob to take you out of context.</p>
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		<title>By: GNoc</title>
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		<dc:creator>GNoc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 01:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ahunt, speaking of punishing women.  Will Obama nominate judges who will stand up for women?  I hope so.  I wouldn&#039;t want to see any women get punished with the custody of a child.  Anytime a dad wants custody, he should say &quot;please don&#039;t punish my exwife with this child&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ahunt, speaking of punishing women.  Will Obama nominate judges who will stand up for women?  I hope so.  I wouldn&#8217;t want to see any women get punished with the custody of a child.  Anytime a dad wants custody, he should say &#8220;please don&#8217;t punish my exwife with this child&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: ahunt</title>
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		<dc:creator>ahunt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 23:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Although I’m not sure the “pro-life” movement is so into punishing women, I think it’s more about controlling them. &lt;/em&gt;

This made me think, and it occured to me that there is little distinction to be made between &quot;control&quot; and &quot;punishment.&quot; Women who refuse to submit to  unjustified, inexcusable and misogynist efforts to control their lives are to be subsequently punished for the failure to submit...via the systematic removal of choices. Access to birth control, abortion, information, etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Although I’m not sure the “pro-life” movement is so into punishing women, I think it’s more about controlling them. </em></p>
<p>This made me think, and it occured to me that there is little distinction to be made between &#8220;control&#8221; and &#8220;punishment.&#8221; Women who refuse to submit to  unjustified, inexcusable and misogynist efforts to control their lives are to be subsequently punished for the failure to submit&#8230;via the systematic removal of choices. Access to birth control, abortion, information, etc.</p>
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		<title>By: Danakitty</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/04/11/responsibility-and-punishment/#comment-164005</link>
		<dc:creator>Danakitty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 20:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chad, I&#039;ve actually asked that question quite a few times. Here are the responses (paraphrased): 

&quot;We don&#039;t have that kind of technology so whatever.&quot; 
(ignoring the question)

&quot;Why can&#039;t they just put the child up for adoption? It&#039;s the same thing.&quot; 
(distorting the question)

&quot;They should have to give birth because it&#039;s a consequence of their actions.&quot; 
(baby as punishment, or at least childbirth/pregnancy as punishment)

&quot;....&quot; 
(ignoring the question)

Not ONCE has a pro-lifer said they would support it. I just don&#039;t &lt;em&gt;get it&lt;/em&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chad, I&#8217;ve actually asked that question quite a few times. Here are the responses (paraphrased): </p>
<p>&#8220;We don&#8217;t have that kind of technology so whatever.&#8221;<br />
(ignoring the question)</p>
<p>&#8220;Why can&#8217;t they just put the child up for adoption? It&#8217;s the same thing.&#8221;<br />
(distorting the question)</p>
<p>&#8220;They should have to give birth because it&#8217;s a consequence of their actions.&#8221;<br />
(baby as punishment, or at least childbirth/pregnancy as punishment)</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;.&#8221;<br />
(ignoring the question)</p>
<p>Not ONCE has a pro-lifer said they would support it. I just don&#8217;t <em>get it</em>.</p>
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