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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 15:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Good:  thankfully Prop 4 did not pass.  The Bad:  the margin was too close for comfort.  please see and share my video post on You Tube of an interview with my 90 year old grandmother about choice and rape when she was 16  (in 1925) in Arkansas, go to &quot;choice 2000&quot; on You Tube.  We have to remember these old stories and use them to educate our daughters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Good:  thankfully Prop 4 did not pass.  The Bad:  the margin was too close for comfort.  please see and share my video post on You Tube of an interview with my 90 year old grandmother about choice and rape when she was 16  (in 1925) in Arkansas, go to &#8220;choice 2000&#8243; on You Tube.  We have to remember these old stories and use them to educate our daughters.</p>
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		<title>By: Prop. 8 is pure hate &#171; Fagabond</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prop. 8 is pure hate &#171; Fagabond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 01:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I don&#8217;t want to be such a negative nelly. Some good elections and ballot measure were won too, besides the obvious greatness of Obama winning the presidency, but I&#8217;m too despondent to type about it right now so check out this great post at Feministe. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I don&#8217;t want to be such a negative nelly. Some good elections and ballot measure were won too, besides the obvious greatness of Obama winning the presidency, but I&#8217;m too despondent to type about it right now so check out this great post at Feministe. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: sam</title>
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		<dc:creator>sam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:02:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;if K had passed, it would mean that those who are trafficked wouldn’t be at such risk of being prosecuted themselves for repeated rape.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

Your belief in Prop K&#039;s goodness relies on the assumption that most prostitutes* are more afraid of police than they are afraid of the pimps 90% of US prostitutes have. That assumption is wrong.  

Also, 85% of rapes aren&#039;t reported to police and it is not because rape victims fear arrest. If you understood, really understood, what the majority of prostitutes say about sexual violence and prostitution then you wouldn&#039;t suggest that the mere ability to report rape would address the problem any more than the mere ability of any woman to report rape addresses the problem. It doesn&#039;t.

To see the rapes of prostitutes the same way you see the rapes of other women means you can&#039;t rely on self-reporting by victims of the least reported, least convicted violent crime as a workable solution to reducing that violent crime. We do not place the burden for stopping rapists on their victims, so why place the burden for stopping rape on rapists&#039; victims who prostitute? 

The way the legal system handles rapes of any person needs major fixing, but if you stop all efforts at rape &lt;b&gt;prevention&lt;/b&gt; in prostitution (which Prop K tried to do) then you are allowing an increase in the number of men who feel entitled to prostituted bodies by shutting down the First Offenders Program and refusing to let police investigate situations &lt;b&gt;before&lt;/b&gt; more rapes can happen. Prop K only works for a small number of non-pimped prostituting women and it only extends its invitation to the kangaroo court of a rape trial &lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; the damage has been done. 

*It is factually inaccurate to use &quot;sex workers&quot; because sex work isn&#039;t illegal in San Francisco and prostitution is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;if K had passed, it would mean that those who are trafficked wouldn’t be at such risk of being prosecuted themselves for repeated rape.&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Your belief in Prop K&#8217;s goodness relies on the assumption that most prostitutes* are more afraid of police than they are afraid of the pimps 90% of US prostitutes have. That assumption is wrong.  </p>
<p>Also, 85% of rapes aren&#8217;t reported to police and it is not because rape victims fear arrest. If you understood, really understood, what the majority of prostitutes say about sexual violence and prostitution then you wouldn&#8217;t suggest that the mere ability to report rape would address the problem any more than the mere ability of any woman to report rape addresses the problem. It doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>To see the rapes of prostitutes the same way you see the rapes of other women means you can&#8217;t rely on self-reporting by victims of the least reported, least convicted violent crime as a workable solution to reducing that violent crime. We do not place the burden for stopping rapists on their victims, so why place the burden for stopping rape on rapists&#8217; victims who prostitute? </p>
<p>The way the legal system handles rapes of any person needs major fixing, but if you stop all efforts at rape <b>prevention</b> in prostitution (which Prop K tried to do) then you are allowing an increase in the number of men who feel entitled to prostituted bodies by shutting down the First Offenders Program and refusing to let police investigate situations <b>before</b> more rapes can happen. Prop K only works for a small number of non-pimped prostituting women and it only extends its invitation to the kangaroo court of a rape trial <i>after</i> the damage has been done. </p>
<p>*It is factually inaccurate to use &#8220;sex workers&#8221; because sex work isn&#8217;t illegal in San Francisco and prostitution is.</p>
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		<title>By: Ivar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ivar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 18:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There were two recent events that really worked against the &quot;No on 8&quot; forces.

1. The somewhat arrogant crowing of Gavin Newsome in his &quot;Like it or not&quot; outburst really irritated a lot of &quot;on the fence&quot; voters.
2. The lesbians who were later married by him just before the election and inexplicably invited a first grade class to the event, calling it a &quot;teaching moment&quot;, created so much apprehension among the right that they mobilized for Prop. 8 even more.
No, I am not a religious zealot, in fact I am agnostic. However &quot;Discretion is the better part of valor&quot;.....(and politics.) I think the anti-8 forces may have &quot;shot themselves in the foot&quot;. 
I am not arguing for the Prop., just trying to analyze the results.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There were two recent events that really worked against the &#8220;No on 8&#8243; forces.</p>
<p>1. The somewhat arrogant crowing of Gavin Newsome in his &#8220;Like it or not&#8221; outburst really irritated a lot of &#8220;on the fence&#8221; voters.<br />
2. The lesbians who were later married by him just before the election and inexplicably invited a first grade class to the event, calling it a &#8220;teaching moment&#8221;, created so much apprehension among the right that they mobilized for Prop. 8 even more.<br />
No, I am not a religious zealot, in fact I am agnostic. However &#8220;Discretion is the better part of valor&#8221;&#8230;..(and politics.) I think the anti-8 forces may have &#8220;shot themselves in the foot&#8221;.<br />
I am not arguing for the Prop., just trying to analyze the results.</p>
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		<title>By: Q Grrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Q Grrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I am minister in San Antonio, TX. I am a Bible Believing Christian. This means that I disagree with the gay lifestyle. I believe that The Bible is a guide to living the way God ordained. BUT: I love gay people. I can’t say that there is a single person I hate. I can’t see hate in my heart. Being a Christian I believe that we, everybody on earth, are brothers and sisters in the eyes of God. Anyone who claims to be a Christian and has hate in thier heart for people because they disagree is a wolf in sheeps clothing. This is not what it means to be a Christian. Like a family, you are to love your brother. Just because you have a disagreement doesn’t mean you stop loving eachother. You are family. Am I right? Likewise, as children of God we are meant to only love eachother and not hate. You don’t have to like eachother. Thts another story. haha BUT: love and not hate is what it means to be a Christian. &quot;


m.f. one:  So, out of all this hate, homophobia, and bigotry you want the queers to be nice to *you*?  You want us to remember that we are &quot;family&quot;?  That we&#039;re obligated to love you even when you write shit like &quot;haha!  I&#039;m not a hater, I just don&#039;t like you, but I need you to ignore that, haha!, &#039;cause I&#039;m like family and you don&#039;t get a choice here, because if you don&#039;t &quot;love&quot; me then not only are you an icky perverted &quot;lifestyle&quot;, but you&#039;re an ungrateful, sinful bad child&quot;.

Nice.  Go fuck yourself *and* the donkey your godhead rode in on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I am minister in San Antonio, TX. I am a Bible Believing Christian. This means that I disagree with the gay lifestyle. I believe that The Bible is a guide to living the way God ordained. BUT: I love gay people. I can’t say that there is a single person I hate. I can’t see hate in my heart. Being a Christian I believe that we, everybody on earth, are brothers and sisters in the eyes of God. Anyone who claims to be a Christian and has hate in thier heart for people because they disagree is a wolf in sheeps clothing. This is not what it means to be a Christian. Like a family, you are to love your brother. Just because you have a disagreement doesn’t mean you stop loving eachother. You are family. Am I right? Likewise, as children of God we are meant to only love eachother and not hate. You don’t have to like eachother. Thts another story. haha BUT: love and not hate is what it means to be a Christian. &#8221;</p>
<p>m.f. one:  So, out of all this hate, homophobia, and bigotry you want the queers to be nice to *you*?  You want us to remember that we are &#8220;family&#8221;?  That we&#8217;re obligated to love you even when you write shit like &#8220;haha!  I&#8217;m not a hater, I just don&#8217;t like you, but I need you to ignore that, haha!, &#8217;cause I&#8217;m like family and you don&#8217;t get a choice here, because if you don&#8217;t &#8220;love&#8221; me then not only are you an icky perverted &#8220;lifestyle&#8221;, but you&#8217;re an ungrateful, sinful bad child&#8221;.</p>
<p>Nice.  Go fuck yourself *and* the donkey your godhead rode in on.</p>
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		<title>By: oxygengrrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>oxygengrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 15:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, was disappointed that K failed.  But, unlike with 8, I wasn&#039;t surprised, and I am less disappointed in my fellow San Franciscans than I am in my fellow Californians.  Also, at least its failure didn&#039;t take away existing rights, which is what really wounds me about 8.
Talking to folks here and around the country about these issues in the days before the elections, I quickly realized that there was a lot of confusion on K.  Otherwise progressive voting guides failed to have a position on it, citing, among other things, confusion.  As noted in the original post, decriminalization remains controversial among feminists/progressives.  Some were concerned about K&#039;s wording and specificity (especially in earlier drafts, but it carried over). 
All of this, I believe, is largely a failure of education.  We need to do better as feminists to understand and explain to one another what approaches are available to us as we seek to protect the rights of women and men through effective policies.  K was a brave first step towards getting the right issues debated, and at least it got them on the agenda.  Now, we need to make sure that its failure does not mean that they fall off of that agenda.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, was disappointed that K failed.  But, unlike with 8, I wasn&#8217;t surprised, and I am less disappointed in my fellow San Franciscans than I am in my fellow Californians.  Also, at least its failure didn&#8217;t take away existing rights, which is what really wounds me about 8.<br />
Talking to folks here and around the country about these issues in the days before the elections, I quickly realized that there was a lot of confusion on K.  Otherwise progressive voting guides failed to have a position on it, citing, among other things, confusion.  As noted in the original post, decriminalization remains controversial among feminists/progressives.  Some were concerned about K&#8217;s wording and specificity (especially in earlier drafts, but it carried over).<br />
All of this, I believe, is largely a failure of education.  We need to do better as feminists to understand and explain to one another what approaches are available to us as we seek to protect the rights of women and men through effective policies.  K was a brave first step towards getting the right issues debated, and at least it got them on the agenda.  Now, we need to make sure that its failure does not mean that they fall off of that agenda.</p>
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		<title>By: Miss Nomered</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miss Nomered</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 12:32:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I cried when I heard about Prop 8 passing. And Prop K not passing - I was really hopeful about that one, too.

And you&#039;re absolutely right about K, Cara. Like I said, I&#039;ve really lost a lot of faith in my fellow &quot;progressives&quot;. Because a lot of them voted for 8. And almost none of them seem to support decrim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cried when I heard about Prop 8 passing. And Prop K not passing &#8211; I was really hopeful about that one, too.</p>
<p>And you&#8217;re absolutely right about K, Cara. Like I said, I&#8217;ve really lost a lot of faith in my fellow &#8220;progressives&#8221;. Because a lot of them voted for 8. And almost none of them seem to support decrim.</p>
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		<title>By: Peter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do not understand why this should be something the general population, most of whom are straight and have been taught homophobia in our society and in their churches, is allowed to vote on. It&#039;s sort of like asking Nazi Germany to vote on rights for Jews. If there was a vote in the southern states in the 1860s to free the slaves or not, we&#039;ld still have slavery.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do not understand why this should be something the general population, most of whom are straight and have been taught homophobia in our society and in their churches, is allowed to vote on. It&#8217;s sort of like asking Nazi Germany to vote on rights for Jews. If there was a vote in the southern states in the 1860s to free the slaves or not, we&#8217;ld still have slavery.</p>
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		<title>By: Election Day in Links &#171; The Redstar Perspective</title>
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		<dc:creator>Election Day in Links &#171; The Redstar Perspective</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 05:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Cara chides herself for phone banking for Obama when she should have been advocating for No on Prop 8.  Yup.  I patted myself on the back for sending them $10 from MA.  BFD, apparently.  Heartbreaking.  Todd Beeton thinks we &#8220;let our guard down,&#8221; and that Obama&#8217;s coattails weren&#8217;t long enough.  Ian Welsh, g*d love &#8216;em, is more polemical about Obama&#8217;s qualified support for gay marriage.  Yup.  Well, thank G*d for lawyers, I guess. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Cara chides herself for phone banking for Obama when she should have been advocating for No on Prop 8.  Yup.  I patted myself on the back for sending them $10 from MA.  BFD, apparently.  Heartbreaking.  Todd Beeton thinks we &#8220;let our guard down,&#8221; and that Obama&#8217;s coattails weren&#8217;t long enough.  Ian Welsh, g*d love &#8216;em, is more polemical about Obama&#8217;s qualified support for gay marriage.  Yup.  Well, thank G*d for lawyers, I guess. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 03:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;You are wrong. It’s very good. No safe haven for trafficking in San Fran! Woot!! My faith in (some) of my fellow progressives has been restored.&lt;/i&gt;

You&#039;re wrong if you think that decriminalizing prostitution and giving sex workers the ability to go to the police if they&#039;ve been raped or beaten would somehow create a &quot;safe haven&quot; for trafficking.  Trafficking would still be illegal; and if K had passed, it would mean that those who are trafficked wouldn&#039;t be at such risk of being prosecuted themselves for repeated rape.  When you prosecute sex workers, there is no way, no how that you can avoid prosecuting those who are doing the work unwillingly (though I in no way think that those who are doing it willingly should be prosecuted).  I was totally not in the mood to get into this argument today, but here we are and I&#039;m already in a royally shitty state of mind.  So if you want to talk about faith in fellow progressives, the results of K are certainly something that has challenged mine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>You are wrong. It’s very good. No safe haven for trafficking in San Fran! Woot!! My faith in (some) of my fellow progressives has been restored.</i></p>
<p>You&#8217;re wrong if you think that decriminalizing prostitution and giving sex workers the ability to go to the police if they&#8217;ve been raped or beaten would somehow create a &#8220;safe haven&#8221; for trafficking.  Trafficking would still be illegal; and if K had passed, it would mean that those who are trafficked wouldn&#8217;t be at such risk of being prosecuted themselves for repeated rape.  When you prosecute sex workers, there is no way, no how that you can avoid prosecuting those who are doing the work unwillingly (though I in no way think that those who are doing it willingly should be prosecuted).  I was totally not in the mood to get into this argument today, but here we are and I&#8217;m already in a royally shitty state of mind.  So if you want to talk about faith in fellow progressives, the results of K are certainly something that has challenged mine.</p>
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