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		<title>By: MY2CENTS</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/12/13/blaming-gay-people-for-the-loss-of-their-own-rights/#comment-228486</link>
		<dc:creator>MY2CENTS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2009 12:25:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(In reference to the &quot;cocksucker shouldn&#039;t be an insult&quot; comment)
...but it&#039;s got so much gravity to it!  Would you no longer consider it appropriate to say, Glen Beck can eat a dick?  And isn&#039;t it funny to think of?  I&#039;m really only half joking.  While I do think that we can differentiate our speech from others, especially those who are clearly more ignorant than us, if we were to remove all traces of bigotry from our language I don&#039;t think we&#039;d be able to communicate with one another.  Rather than sticking to a schtick or &quot;script&quot; I prefer to improvise when I speak; I&#039;ll rarely say the same thing the same way twice.  I prefer the David Cross way  of discussing bigotry - subverting from within.  

Also, correct me if I&#039;m wrong, but haven&#039;t groups like GLAD always been more concerned about Eminem than George W. Bush?  I think that article brought up a very good point, which is that within any group in American culture, responsibility for civil rights rests upon its members more than upon outsiders.  Reprioritizing is in order if gay Americans want to be aknowledged in holy matrimony by the state.  THAT is what &quot;freedom isn&#039;t free&quot; means, no matter what those chest-thumping jingoistic cocksuckers with the bumper stickers tell you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(In reference to the &#8220;cocksucker shouldn&#8217;t be an insult&#8221; comment)<br />
&#8230;but it&#8217;s got so much gravity to it!  Would you no longer consider it appropriate to say, Glen Beck can eat a dick?  And isn&#8217;t it funny to think of?  I&#8217;m really only half joking.  While I do think that we can differentiate our speech from others, especially those who are clearly more ignorant than us, if we were to remove all traces of bigotry from our language I don&#8217;t think we&#8217;d be able to communicate with one another.  Rather than sticking to a schtick or &#8220;script&#8221; I prefer to improvise when I speak; I&#8217;ll rarely say the same thing the same way twice.  I prefer the David Cross way  of discussing bigotry &#8211; subverting from within.  </p>
<p>Also, correct me if I&#8217;m wrong, but haven&#8217;t groups like GLAD always been more concerned about Eminem than George W. Bush?  I think that article brought up a very good point, which is that within any group in American culture, responsibility for civil rights rests upon its members more than upon outsiders.  Reprioritizing is in order if gay Americans want to be aknowledged in holy matrimony by the state.  THAT is what &#8220;freedom isn&#8217;t free&#8221; means, no matter what those chest-thumping jingoistic cocksuckers with the bumper stickers tell you.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/12/13/blaming-gay-people-for-the-loss-of-their-own-rights/#comment-218265</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 05:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since people like you confuse logic with ideology, there&#039;s no hope. Separate but equal applies to latent genetic attributes and predispositions. Using your logic (and I use the definition in the widest sense of the word) we could marry children and legally have sex with animals. Marriage is a social institution, not a latent genetic attribute, and the attempt at equating gay marriage with the civil rights movement was a fatal strategic publicity flaw. But why is this surprising since, after all, it is liberals that also want to position free health care as a basic human right.

As far as separate but equal and tradition goes, I guess that&#039;s why most women still prefer to use a washroom dedicated to females. Or do you mind taking a piss with a room full of truckers?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since people like you confuse logic with ideology, there&#8217;s no hope. Separate but equal applies to latent genetic attributes and predispositions. Using your logic (and I use the definition in the widest sense of the word) we could marry children and legally have sex with animals. Marriage is a social institution, not a latent genetic attribute, and the attempt at equating gay marriage with the civil rights movement was a fatal strategic publicity flaw. But why is this surprising since, after all, it is liberals that also want to position free health care as a basic human right.</p>
<p>As far as separate but equal and tradition goes, I guess that&#8217;s why most women still prefer to use a washroom dedicated to females. Or do you mind taking a piss with a room full of truckers?</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 03:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;Further, minority groups, and indeed most of the public, were rightfully confused about why a class of people that enjoy all the legal protections and benefits of marriage - civil unions - want to impose their own personal views on tradition that runs back thousands of years.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Um, maybe because they&#039;re not the same. And maybe because that &quot;tradition&quot; -- the one by which, using your standard of keeping things as they&#039;ve been for thousands of years, my husband owns me -- affects how seriously people take the union and whether or not it&#039;s easy to apply your rights in a do or die situation like an emergency room.

So I&#039;m not bothering to address the rest of your comment; come back when you get your basic facts straight.  Separate but equal isn&#039;t equal; if it was, we wouldn&#039;t have two different names for the two different things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Further, minority groups, and indeed most of the public, were rightfully confused about why a class of people that enjoy all the legal protections and benefits of marriage &#8211; civil unions &#8211; want to impose their own personal views on tradition that runs back thousands of years.</p></blockquote>
<p>Um, maybe because they&#8217;re not the same. And maybe because that &#8220;tradition&#8221; &#8212; the one by which, using your standard of keeping things as they&#8217;ve been for thousands of years, my husband owns me &#8212; affects how seriously people take the union and whether or not it&#8217;s easy to apply your rights in a do or die situation like an emergency room.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m not bothering to address the rest of your comment; come back when you get your basic facts straight.  Separate but equal isn&#8217;t equal; if it was, we wouldn&#8217;t have two different names for the two different things.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 03:13:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A couple of observations from a libertarian (shitty that we seem to love labels, especially liberals, with their infatuation with hyphens)...

The will-of-the-people and democracy-in-action arguments flouted by the right, and correctly vilified by the left, will be tested in court. That&#039;s how a constitutional democracy works, which we are. Short of a constitutional amendment, Prop 8 will and should be overturned. But, to the strategy side of what happened,  what I find utterly appalling by the left is their manifest hypocrisy when it comes employing this same tactic to causes dear to their ideology.

For example, think of the movement sponsored by the left to require that pharmacists provide birth control even under claims that it violates their religious beliefs. We heard these same will-of-the-people and democracy-in-action arguments flouted by the left when it came to requiring pharmacists to dispense birth control. The regulations were tested in court and compromise was reached based on constitutional grounds, not democratic grounds. What&#039;s truly amazing is that most Americans seem to have such short attention spans, which is why entering politics is a growth industry.

In any event, marriage is not a civil right in the sense of skin color or some other latent genetic attribute. The No on 8 strategy failed by attempting to equate gay marriage as being a  civil rights. Minority groups, rightly, saw this fallacious logic, independent of what they may have been spoon-fed by the Moron church and their money.

Further, minority groups, and indeed most of the public, were rightfully confused about why a class of people that enjoy all the legal protections and benefits of marriage - civil unions - want to impose their own personal views on tradition that runs back thousands of years. What&#039;s even more interesting is how the liberal faction - the militantly secular faction - is now so keenly interested in what has been, recently at least, a religious ceremony. It&#039;s USA: why not start your own church or religion instead of demanding others to conform to your own views. One wonders who&#039;s really bigoted here?

If gays want to marry, they should be able to, but change requires patience, nuance, and grand strategy. Choosing the nuclear option, and a sorry attempt at civil rights relativism, set the movement back years. Indeed , the tremendous knackering the gay class took by minorities showed either just how little they understand minorities or how much of a self-inflated sense of civil-rights relativism they attach to gay marriage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of observations from a libertarian (shitty that we seem to love labels, especially liberals, with their infatuation with hyphens)&#8230;</p>
<p>The will-of-the-people and democracy-in-action arguments flouted by the right, and correctly vilified by the left, will be tested in court. That&#8217;s how a constitutional democracy works, which we are. Short of a constitutional amendment, Prop 8 will and should be overturned. But, to the strategy side of what happened,  what I find utterly appalling by the left is their manifest hypocrisy when it comes employing this same tactic to causes dear to their ideology.</p>
<p>For example, think of the movement sponsored by the left to require that pharmacists provide birth control even under claims that it violates their religious beliefs. We heard these same will-of-the-people and democracy-in-action arguments flouted by the left when it came to requiring pharmacists to dispense birth control. The regulations were tested in court and compromise was reached based on constitutional grounds, not democratic grounds. What&#8217;s truly amazing is that most Americans seem to have such short attention spans, which is why entering politics is a growth industry.</p>
<p>In any event, marriage is not a civil right in the sense of skin color or some other latent genetic attribute. The No on 8 strategy failed by attempting to equate gay marriage as being a  civil rights. Minority groups, rightly, saw this fallacious logic, independent of what they may have been spoon-fed by the Moron church and their money.</p>
<p>Further, minority groups, and indeed most of the public, were rightfully confused about why a class of people that enjoy all the legal protections and benefits of marriage &#8211; civil unions &#8211; want to impose their own personal views on tradition that runs back thousands of years. What&#8217;s even more interesting is how the liberal faction &#8211; the militantly secular faction &#8211; is now so keenly interested in what has been, recently at least, a religious ceremony. It&#8217;s USA: why not start your own church or religion instead of demanding others to conform to your own views. One wonders who&#8217;s really bigoted here?</p>
<p>If gays want to marry, they should be able to, but change requires patience, nuance, and grand strategy. Choosing the nuclear option, and a sorry attempt at civil rights relativism, set the movement back years. Indeed , the tremendous knackering the gay class took by minorities showed either just how little they understand minorities or how much of a self-inflated sense of civil-rights relativism they attach to gay marriage.</p>
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		<title>By: But Dude, They&#8217;re WRONG</title>
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		<dc:creator>But Dude, They&#8217;re WRONG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 13:59:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a week old now, but this Feministe post exhibits a type of category error that crops up in other contexts, so I figure it&#8217;s still [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a week old now, but this Feministe post exhibits a type of category error that crops up in other contexts, so I figure it&#8217;s still [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Doug</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:48:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still say that one reason Prop 8 passed is because too many dykes and fags sat on their butts rather than do something.  People told me I was wasting my time when I was making calls and passing out flyers and trying to organize a march.  After, I get lots of, &quot;Gee, I guess I should have helped out after all.&quot;

Some of us were going door-to-door, some of us were making calls, some of us were trying to organize.  And queers were the ones telling us we were wasting our time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still say that one reason Prop 8 passed is because too many dykes and fags sat on their butts rather than do something.  People told me I was wasting my time when I was making calls and passing out flyers and trying to organize a march.  After, I get lots of, &#8220;Gee, I guess I should have helped out after all.&#8221;</p>
<p>Some of us were going door-to-door, some of us were making calls, some of us were trying to organize.  And queers were the ones telling us we were wasting our time.</p>
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		<title>By: notes from the interblags &#124; A Collage of Citations</title>
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		<dc:creator>notes from the interblags &#124; A Collage of Citations</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 04:42:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] • Feministe on the Rolling Stone article that blames gay organizing for Prop 8&#8217;s passing [...]</description>
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		<title>By: shah8</title>
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		<dc:creator>shah8</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 16:21:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Topic, people...

If I were talking about the major political parties and presidencies, I would not have given a list any more friendly to feminism.  That Black parties were just as sexist as their white counterparts, more or less, is stipulated.  I was not talking about people who acted on their own behalf, nor was I talking about people who were a critical part of the machinery.

I was talking about political bosses who had substantial sway over a big chunck of the African American population.  That there had been very few such women who had even a glimmer of access, and Mary Bethune came in at the edges of such power, judging by the wiki.  Women weren&#039;t even allowed to vote until 8/26/1920!  

I find professions of amazement absurd, since it&#039;s tantamount to wishing Henry Clay voted in skirts or that Nat Turner was the 9th president of the United States.  Or a closer analogy--to consider the likes of Davy Crockett a figure of political significance.  It has nothing to do with the inherent value of people like Tubman, who believe me, I read a number of books about, and everything to do with the fact that she was a woman of action and not an organizing political animal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Topic, people&#8230;</p>
<p>If I were talking about the major political parties and presidencies, I would not have given a list any more friendly to feminism.  That Black parties were just as sexist as their white counterparts, more or less, is stipulated.  I was not talking about people who acted on their own behalf, nor was I talking about people who were a critical part of the machinery.</p>
<p>I was talking about political bosses who had substantial sway over a big chunck of the African American population.  That there had been very few such women who had even a glimmer of access, and Mary Bethune came in at the edges of such power, judging by the wiki.  Women weren&#8217;t even allowed to vote until 8/26/1920!  </p>
<p>I find professions of amazement absurd, since it&#8217;s tantamount to wishing Henry Clay voted in skirts or that Nat Turner was the 9th president of the United States.  Or a closer analogy&#8211;to consider the likes of Davy Crockett a figure of political significance.  It has nothing to do with the inherent value of people like Tubman, who believe me, I read a number of books about, and everything to do with the fact that she was a woman of action and not an organizing political animal.</p>
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		<title>By: marilove</title>
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		<dc:creator>marilove</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 15:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth were not relevant players in the overall movement in terms of strategy.&quot;

WHUT?  Are you kidding me?  Rosa Parks was not a relevant player?!

&quot;Even now, you see someone like Cornel West being the representative political figure, and not Lani Guineer even though she is a materially more active figure.&quot;

...And have you ever considered why this is?  Your attitude is one reason of many.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth were not relevant players in the overall movement in terms of strategy.&#8221;</p>
<p>WHUT?  Are you kidding me?  Rosa Parks was not a relevant player?!</p>
<p>&#8220;Even now, you see someone like Cornel West being the representative political figure, and not Lani Guineer even though she is a materially more active figure.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230;And have you ever considered why this is?  Your attitude is one reason of many.</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 14:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, shah8.  Just wow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, shah8.  Just wow.</p>
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