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    Ariane 5.15.2009 at 10:15 am |

    In Australia we have people complaining that paid maternity leave (minimum wage for 18 weeks – no luxury) promotes having babies when the world can’t support it.

    Apparently women can’t have the power to have babies, or not to have them.

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    Suzanne M 5.15.2009 at 10:28 am |

    Well, shit, babies are only props to them anyway, so I guess it doesn’t matter whether they’re made of flesh & blood or synthetic fibers.

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    micheyd 5.15.2009 at 11:03 am |

    Huh, funny that he would use a Cabbage Patch doll – with all the associated mythology of them just springing wholly formed from asexual cabbages. Another convenient way for them to forget that women even exist in this equation?

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    ebsith 5.15.2009 at 11:40 am |

    I guess the cabbage patch dolls are supposed to represent aborted “babies”?

    I find the “I regret my abortion” signs absurd. That statement is not meant to in anyway downplay the emotional torture that can accompany abortion. However, I think it is ridiculous to say “well, I made a mistake and I wish someone had told me I wasn’t allowed. I should have carried it to term. Oh, and since I made a mistake, I think I should be able to decide for all of you.” If we applied that logic, we should also outlaw adoption, because there are many women who regret giving up their child to adoption.

    *sigh*

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    ThickRedGlasses 5.15.2009 at 11:58 am |

    Seriously, ebsith. Regret is simply a consequence of making a decision. If you don’t want to regret anything, then give away all of your rights.

    And carrying around those plastic babies reminds me of something I saw on BBC America about women who collect these lifelike baby dolls and treat them like real babies.

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    prefer not to say 5.15.2009 at 12:28 pm |

    Thanks for making the distinction between faith and politics. It’s nice to see someone doing it.

    To complicate the idea that this is about Catholicism I might also add that the majority of Catholics who attend mass every Sunday are Hispanic, not white. And they overwhelmingly voted for Obama.

    I know many many pro-life Catholics who voted for Obama because the strategy of voting for people who wanted to make abortion illegal clearly wasn’t working and they sincerely hope that better support for the poor might at least reduce the abortion rate. I’m not sure that any of them own Sponge Bob Sqaurepants babydoll stroller, though, so they might not count as “real” Catholics.

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    Cactus Wren 5.15.2009 at 12:47 pm |

    Regret is simply a consequence of making a decision. If you don’t want to regret anything, then give away all of your rights.

    On talk.abortion (where I honed my mad abortion-debate skillz), I dealt with someone who was upset that the legality of abortion was forcing choice on her. I pointed out that no one was requiring or demanding that she do anything: it only meant that she had the choice, and the legal right to make it. But her complaint was actually, “Yes, exactly! They’re forcing me to have the right to choose! I don’t want to have that right, and they’re forcing it on me!” All I could do was roll my eyes. (This was before I ran across the Prairie Muffin types who want to renounce the right to vote — and want to renounce it for me too.)

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    Dianne 5.15.2009 at 12:56 pm |

    If we applied that logic, we should also outlaw adoption, because there are many women who regret giving up their child to adoption.

    Not to mention reproduction, since it’s by no means unknown for women (and men) to regret having had children.

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    Bitter Scribe 5.15.2009 at 1:05 pm |

    Obama’s approach—practical, nonideological, “pro-choice” but hardly pro-abortion—is more likely than any of the alternatives to keep it relatively civil.

    The only thing that’s going to make the abortion debate “civil” is if the obnoxious “pro-life” jerks get a clue. As long as they think their opinions are so important that they need never take anyone else’s rights and feelings into account, they’re going to go on being obnoxious jerks. Regrettably, I don’t see that changing.

    In any case, this issue really isn’t open to compromise. Either you believe pregnant women should be forced to bear children against their will, or you don’t.

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    preying mantis 5.15.2009 at 1:58 pm |

    “On talk.abortion (where I honed my mad abortion-debate skillz), I dealt with someone who was upset that the legality of abortion was forcing choice on her.”

    Every so often you will run across someone who’s pissed that the world expects them to act like a fucking adult for once and have either the chutzpah or lack of self-awareness to admit it. Unfortunately, the people who have a potent cocktail of narcissism and belief in false dichotomies are quite a bit more common.

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    opit 5.15.2009 at 5:25 pm |

    At the risk of sounding like an insensitive raving lunatic – just a matter of perspective – I have long ago decided that sexual identity politics are all about power and subjugation. Which means you are right to to incensed : but likely not going to make any headway against dishonest appeals to ‘spiritual authority’ and mass marketing of unadulterated headbanging mind control. I’m thinking Moonie-style, no less.
    It isn’t a ‘debate’ in the sense of the other party having to make sense : it’s all emotional appeal to dishonest cant and repetitive programming via Fox and pulpit for the disdainfully-named ‘Base’.
    After a visit to Wikipedia to review the concept “Moving the Overton Window’ check out this old post from daily Kos : http://www.dailykos.com/story/2006/5/9/205251/2950 I have listed this and other articles on my Links page for years but don’t seem to get the message out – any more than Needlenose could.
    At least you will ‘know the enemy.’
    And yes, that’s a busy place. The section is on the Links page in the right hand column and well down – but fairly extensive.

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