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  1. Body Impolitic - Blog Archive - » Guest blogging at Feministe! - Laurie Toby Edison: Photographer

    [...] just put up an introductory post giving some context about who we are and what we do. As we put up posts over there with more [...]

  2. aldea
    aldea August 10, 2009 at 10:51 pm |

    Question: do you write about hating your body because of chronic illness? I am jealous, and hate, other people’s “working” bodies, and my own for its betrayal, because I’m insulin dependent diabetic. My body doesn’t work properly with food – and exercise especially – hence the jealousy of people that can do whatever they want.. I am especially jealous of “working” bodies when mine doesn’t cooperate – classic example is when I can’t go for a run when my blood sugars are perfectly level, where they are supposed to be, but for a 4 mile run they are too low (I could go hypoglycemic). Have you discussed chronic illness body hatred??

  3. aag
    aag August 10, 2009 at 10:58 pm |

    Hi Lauri, We met in Chicago at BlogHer ’07 and you gave me a copy of your first book to look at for Jane’s Guide. Nice to see you!

  4. aldea
    aldea August 11, 2009 at 7:42 am |

    Well – I could write about it. Check out my blog for a writing sample (not a feminist blog though)..

    http://foodwinegrow.blogspot.com/

  5. aldea
    aldea August 11, 2009 at 8:00 am |
  6. aldea
    aldea August 11, 2009 at 8:00 am |
  7. debbie
    debbie August 11, 2009 at 10:30 am |

    aldea,

    your comment set off a lightbulb for me – I have hypoglycemia, and never really thought about why I was resentful of my friends who never have to worry about going for a long bike ride or a run, or some of my own body hatred. I had a nasty and embarassing incident at the gym two years ago, and never went back.

    I don’t know if you’re a regular reader of feministe, but there have been some really good guest posts about disability and chronic illness this summer (even if some of the comments have been not great) if you missed them.

  8. SJ
    SJ August 11, 2009 at 12:43 pm |

    Two writers/thinkers/artists who do some of the very best work on this subject. Debbie and Laurie challenge my viewpoints and I am excited about this guest blogging!

  9. debbie
    debbie August 11, 2009 at 5:42 pm |

    Oops- I should specify that I am not the debbie that made the original post (just comment #8)

  10. River
    River August 11, 2009 at 6:20 pm |

    Hi, Laurie! I own two of your pieces, the heron/crane and the moon, both of which I wear regularly and get compliments on all the time. It’s wonderful to see you here on Feministe! as a guest blogger, and I look forward to your in depth posts about body image, feminism, and (hopefully) size-ism as a part of the discussion. That particular bias expresses itself even in the doctor’s office, where if a woman goes in for an earache, her doctor will focus on her weight, not her ear.

  11. aldea
    aldea August 11, 2009 at 7:05 pm |

    Debbie @ 11

    I can totally relate to embarassing incidents in public places, and I’m also non-symptomatic, so when my sugars are going very low I don’t know what’s happening until I wake up with the medics standing around me. Another reason for my particular body issue is that I feel very alone. I know a ton of insulin dependent diabetics, but none take care of themselves. They’re often sick, roller coaster sugars, have eye or kidney issues, and here I am, hyper vigilant about testing, exercise, carb counting and near perfect A1Cs (6.0), all alone. Sigh..

    I’m a fairly regular visitor, so I’ll take a look around for the posts you mentioned. Thanks for sharing!

  12. Meowser
    Meowser August 11, 2009 at 10:39 pm |

    And Laurie and Debbie, it’s great to see you here! (My comments on your site keep falling into your spamtrap, for whatever reason.)

  13. Debbie Notkin
    Debbie Notkin August 12, 2009 at 1:16 am |

    Meowser, I’m fixing the spam filter right now. Sorry about that!

  14. Josh Jasper
    Josh Jasper August 12, 2009 at 8:43 am |

    Good to see you folks here. I dunno if Debbie remembers me form usenet, but we crossed paths on a few newsgroups back in the 90′s I think. And of course, I love your books.

  15. Debbie Notkin
    Debbie Notkin August 12, 2009 at 9:36 am |

    Josh, yes, of course I remember you! We crossed paths in person a few times as well.

    Thanks for the compliment. More Body Impolitic on Feministe later today.

  16. DaisyDeadhead
    DaisyDeadhead August 12, 2009 at 9:57 am |

    Is everybody under 40? Probably, but thought I’d ask. I notice you didn’t mention age at all.

    I thought I spotted a touch of gray on one of those women…

  17. Lynne Murray
    Lynne Murray August 14, 2009 at 1:25 pm |

    Aldea and DaisyDeadhead’s comments crossed paths in my brain just now! Aldea’s question/comment about body hating one’s own body when it doesn’t function well, and other people’s bodies who do–giving the example:

    “I can’t go for a run when my blood sugars are perfectly level, where they are supposed to be, but for a 4 mile run they are too low (I could go hypoglycemic). Have you discussed chronic illness body hatred??”

    Speaking as a fat 60-year-old woman with very bad arthritic knees, I am now restricted even from going downstairs to get my own mail, but at NO TIME in my life was I ever a runner, so I don’t miss not running. There was a time when I could do a lot more physically than I can now, and there certainly are 90-year-olds who can do more at that age than I ever could. So I could hate the ageing process, or I could choose to hate my fat body, or to hate others who can do more.

    When I say “choose to hate” I have to say that this choice took years of learning how to disconnect the self-hatred, other-comparison tapes that have been battered into all of us by a culture that really does not embrace accepting our bodies.

    Frankly, I think hating others starts with being disconnected enough from our bodies to resent them when they don’t “function right” or”look right” by an arbitrary definition of “right” that doesn’t take into account our body’s own reality. I’ll compress about 5 years of self-therapy into 3 sentences:

    (1) I started by saying “No” literally every time a self-bashing thought popped up–it’s amazing how quickly this improved my inner mental climate.
    (2) I started making friends with my body asking her opinion about what she wanted to eat and what other things she needed more or less of to function.
    (3) Last, as I would to any friend, I offered praise and support for the things my body does well–so many things!

    Our commercial culture encourages us to DISconnect from experiencing our own bodies, and when we go though pain or disability, it feeds right into that state of anxiety that makes us more compliant consumers. I think loving our bodies exactly how they are leads to better health and happier lives, at least in my own experience.

  18. Body Impolitic - Blog Archive - » Aging is (Not) Unnatural - Laurie Toby Edison: Photographer

    [...] our introductory post on Feministe last week, Daisy Deadhead asked if we wrote about age as a body image issue, since we [...]

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