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	<title>Comments on: You Respect A Cisperson&#8217;s Right To Choose Their Name, Why Not A Transperson?</title>
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		<title>By: Angelia Sparrow</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-275139</link>
		<dc:creator>Angelia Sparrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 11:42:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dyssonance,

Thanks, that was how I had been doing it. I was just checking that it wasn&#039;t offensive.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dyssonance,</p>
<p>Thanks, that was how I had been doing it. I was just checking that it wasn&#8217;t offensive.</p>
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		<title>By: helen</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-275071</link>
		<dc:creator>helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 05:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for writing this. This is a good, basic intro to human decency and respect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for writing this. This is a good, basic intro to human decency and respect.</p>
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		<title>By: Femmostroppo Reader &#8211; September 14, 2009 — Hoyden About Town</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-274995</link>
		<dc:creator>Femmostroppo Reader &#8211; September 14, 2009 — Hoyden About Town</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 22:20:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] You Respect A Cisperson’s Right To Choose Their Name, Why Not A Transperson? [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Dyssonance</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-274978</link>
		<dc:creator>Dyssonance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:40:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angelia,

Ask them. A lot of us have extremely strong dislikes for our old names.

Thee are a lot of standards on doing that -- I generally use the model:

&quot;Current name&quot; (formerly old name) did x

When referring to older stuff.  

An example: Paul Blatt (formerly Lousie Herndon) was a mall cop in his youth.

IN my case, if anyone were to dig up my old name and stuff, I would personally prefer that they not use the old name.  For anything. Ever.

In other words, treat it like you would treat someone who get&#039;s married and changes their last name. Or someone who used a pen name befoe being discovered for temselves (a la Andre Norton).

It really just about that hard.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angelia,</p>
<p>Ask them. A lot of us have extremely strong dislikes for our old names.</p>
<p>Thee are a lot of standards on doing that &#8212; I generally use the model:</p>
<p>&#8220;Current name&#8221; (formerly old name) did x</p>
<p>When referring to older stuff.  </p>
<p>An example: Paul Blatt (formerly Lousie Herndon) was a mall cop in his youth.</p>
<p>IN my case, if anyone were to dig up my old name and stuff, I would personally prefer that they not use the old name.  For anything. Ever.</p>
<p>In other words, treat it like you would treat someone who get&#8217;s married and changes their last name. Or someone who used a pen name befoe being discovered for temselves (a la Andre Norton).</p>
<p>It really just about that hard.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-274976</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A cisperson outright REFUSING to use the name that a Transperson have given themselves is such a blatant, arrogant privilaged thing to. Its like saying, &quot;No, I&#039;LL tell you who you are. Deal with it.&quot; Ugh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A cisperson outright REFUSING to use the name that a Transperson have given themselves is such a blatant, arrogant privilaged thing to. Its like saying, &#8220;No, I&#8217;LL tell you who you are. Deal with it.&#8221; Ugh.</p>
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		<title>By: Angelia Sparrow</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-274973</link>
		<dc:creator>Angelia Sparrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:15:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A question. How do you refer to works produced by the person before transition?  One of my favorite musicians transitioned and is still performing. How do you talk about the things done before and respect both the past and the present?

Names...always use the name and pronoun the person in question is using.  That&#039;s just basic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A question. How do you refer to works produced by the person before transition?  One of my favorite musicians transitioned and is still performing. How do you talk about the things done before and respect both the past and the present?</p>
<p>Names&#8230;always use the name and pronoun the person in question is using.  That&#8217;s just basic.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica Sideways</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/09/13/you-respect-a-cispersons-right-to-choose-their-name-why-not-a-transperson/#comment-274931</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Sideways</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 18:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If only more people saw who we are on the inside instead of treating us like transitioning is a choice and thinking that we are still men. I just received a voice mail the other day from my mum and her boyfriend and they were saying all sorts of hurtful, transphobic things. Feh, but they are ignorant Southern Baptists that never really cared anyways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If only more people saw who we are on the inside instead of treating us like transitioning is a choice and thinking that we are still men. I just received a voice mail the other day from my mum and her boyfriend and they were saying all sorts of hurtful, transphobic things. Feh, but they are ignorant Southern Baptists that never really cared anyways.</p>
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		<title>By: recombination</title>
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		<dc:creator>recombination</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 18:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. Far too many people don&#039;t realize or don&#039;t care that respecting people&#039;s names and pronouns can be a matter of life and death.

Interestingly, knowing how seriously important it is to respect the names trans people choose for themselves has made me a lot more supportive and respectful of self-naming in general. Once upon a time I didn&#039;t think people had the right to come up with their own nicknames outside of a trans context--and then I realized I was setting up a weird double standard by treating trans people&#039;s chosen names as more valid than cis people&#039;s (better than a double standard in the other direction, since calling someone Ted instead of Teddy isn&#039;t likely to put them at risk of violence, but still a pointless double standard). Being trans has taught me a lot of important things about respecting everyone&#039;s autonomy and right to self identify.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. Far too many people don&#8217;t realize or don&#8217;t care that respecting people&#8217;s names and pronouns can be a matter of life and death.</p>
<p>Interestingly, knowing how seriously important it is to respect the names trans people choose for themselves has made me a lot more supportive and respectful of self-naming in general. Once upon a time I didn&#8217;t think people had the right to come up with their own nicknames outside of a trans context&#8211;and then I realized I was setting up a weird double standard by treating trans people&#8217;s chosen names as more valid than cis people&#8217;s (better than a double standard in the other direction, since calling someone Ted instead of Teddy isn&#8217;t likely to put them at risk of violence, but still a pointless double standard). Being trans has taught me a lot of important things about respecting everyone&#8217;s autonomy and right to self identify.</p>
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