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	<description>In defense of the sanctimonious women&#039;s studies set.</description>
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		<title>By: DPirate</title>
		<link>http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/12/21/lots-of-potential-but-not-sitting-right-with-me/#comment-290585</link>
		<dc:creator>DPirate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 13:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand your objections. Was going to say something else but after further thought I will just say that your efforts and those of Shakesville and the like are probably effective in changing the predominant culture in a beneficial way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand your objections. Was going to say something else but after further thought I will just say that your efforts and those of Shakesville and the like are probably effective in changing the predominant culture in a beneficial way.</p>
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		<title>By: Chally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 21:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It wouldn&#039;t satisfy my complaint at all... because I don&#039;t think it&#039;s appropriate to tell people of whatever gender that they&#039;re potential rapists as part of an anti-rape campaign. I&#039;m saying the focus of an anti-rape campaign should be to, you know, prevent rape, part of which involves telling people not to rape, and support survivors.

Yep, alcohol is a factor in rape occurance. You know what? Plenty of rapes occur with no alcohol involved. When someone who has been raped has been drinking, other people regularly take that as evidence they are to blame. The same goes for wearing tight clothes, being out at night, walking alone, etc. But you know what? People who don&#039;t do any of those things are raped, too. The one thing all rapes have in common? Is a rapist. Focussing on the behaviours of the people who are raped is ridiculous, because it is all about the behaviour of the rapist. See &lt;a href=&quot;http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/01/you-know.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Melissa McEwan&lt;/a&gt; for more on this.

ETA &lt;a href=&quot;http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2007/12/this-is-really-shaping-up-to-be-back-to.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;another link&lt;/a&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It wouldn&#8217;t satisfy my complaint at all&#8230; because I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s appropriate to tell people of whatever gender that they&#8217;re potential rapists as part of an anti-rape campaign. I&#8217;m saying the focus of an anti-rape campaign should be to, you know, prevent rape, part of which involves telling people not to rape, and support survivors.</p>
<p>Yep, alcohol is a factor in rape occurance. You know what? Plenty of rapes occur with no alcohol involved. When someone who has been raped has been drinking, other people regularly take that as evidence they are to blame. The same goes for wearing tight clothes, being out at night, walking alone, etc. But you know what? People who don&#8217;t do any of those things are raped, too. The one thing all rapes have in common? Is a rapist. Focussing on the behaviours of the people who are raped is ridiculous, because it is all about the behaviour of the rapist. See <a href="http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/01/you-know.html" rel="nofollow">Melissa McEwan</a> for more on this.</p>
<p>ETA <a href="http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2007/12/this-is-really-shaping-up-to-be-back-to.html" rel="nofollow">another link</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: DPirate</title>
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		<dc:creator>DPirate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 12:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How would it go over if they left women out entirely? If instead they told all men that they were potential rapists if they had too much (enough?) to drink? That ought to satisfy your complaint but would lead to greater trouble for the police.

I have no statistics, but I expect that alcohol is a factor in rape occurence, and remains so whether the man, the woman, or both have been drinking. If so, then this police campaign is simply correct.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How would it go over if they left women out entirely? If instead they told all men that they were potential rapists if they had too much (enough?) to drink? That ought to satisfy your complaint but would lead to greater trouble for the police.</p>
<p>I have no statistics, but I expect that alcohol is a factor in rape occurence, and remains so whether the man, the woman, or both have been drinking. If so, then this police campaign is simply correct.</p>
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		<title>By: Alara Rogers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alara Rogers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 16:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Um, james, while there might be a truth to what you’re saying, that doesn’t make it any better, does it? That would be kind of saying victim-blaming is okay as long as it’s used to a good end?&lt;/i&gt;

Maybe I misread james&#039; post, but I got the impression he&#039;s saying it&#039;s worse -- that they&#039;re hijacking &quot;concern for women&#039;s safety&quot; to push &quot;don&#039;t drink&quot; for their own purposes. I mean, at the very least victim-blaming attempts to stop rape are sincerely aimed at stopping rape, but rape-victim-blaming attempts to stop people from *drinking* are taking something as serious and devastating as rape and using it as an excuse to push an agenda against drinking, which is kind of like arguing against murder because dead bodies carry disease and smell bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Um, james, while there might be a truth to what you’re saying, that doesn’t make it any better, does it? That would be kind of saying victim-blaming is okay as long as it’s used to a good end?</i></p>
<p>Maybe I misread james&#8217; post, but I got the impression he&#8217;s saying it&#8217;s worse &#8212; that they&#8217;re hijacking &#8220;concern for women&#8217;s safety&#8221; to push &#8220;don&#8217;t drink&#8221; for their own purposes. I mean, at the very least victim-blaming attempts to stop rape are sincerely aimed at stopping rape, but rape-victim-blaming attempts to stop people from *drinking* are taking something as serious and devastating as rape and using it as an excuse to push an agenda against drinking, which is kind of like arguing against murder because dead bodies carry disease and smell bad.</p>
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		<title>By: UnFit</title>
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		<dc:creator>UnFit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Um, james, while there might be a truth to what you&#039;re saying, that doesn&#039;t make it any better, does it? That would be kind of saying victim-blaming is okay as long as it&#039;s used to a good end?

And Han, I love that campaign, especially the wedding picture.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Um, james, while there might be a truth to what you&#8217;re saying, that doesn&#8217;t make it any better, does it? That would be kind of saying victim-blaming is okay as long as it&#8217;s used to a good end?</p>
<p>And Han, I love that campaign, especially the wedding picture.</p>
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		<title>By: james</title>
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		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>May I make a suggestion? What actual evidence is there that there&#039;s a spike in rape over the holiday period? Everything I can find says the reverse - that there&#039;s a peak in July and a low point in December.

The main issue here is that the police just don&#039;t like people getting drunk. In most places over the Christmas drinking season there are very few on duty police officers to deal with large numbers of drunk people in a very precariously balanced public order situation.

I don&#039;t think the alcohol thing is motivated by victim blaming as such, they&#039;re just looking out for themselves. It&#039;s a bit like on feminist blogs people will use even the most marginal topics as excuses to talk about stuff like rape and abortion that they care passionately about. That&#039;s like what alcohol is for the police. They know come Thursday evening they&#039;re going to be outnumbered 2000:1 by people who are absolutely tanked. They&#039;re just gonna take any opportunity to warn people off drinking. I think they&#039;re basically using rape as a tool to run an anti-alcohol campaign.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>May I make a suggestion? What actual evidence is there that there&#8217;s a spike in rape over the holiday period? Everything I can find says the reverse &#8211; that there&#8217;s a peak in July and a low point in December.</p>
<p>The main issue here is that the police just don&#8217;t like people getting drunk. In most places over the Christmas drinking season there are very few on duty police officers to deal with large numbers of drunk people in a very precariously balanced public order situation.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think the alcohol thing is motivated by victim blaming as such, they&#8217;re just looking out for themselves. It&#8217;s a bit like on feminist blogs people will use even the most marginal topics as excuses to talk about stuff like rape and abortion that they care passionately about. That&#8217;s like what alcohol is for the police. They know come Thursday evening they&#8217;re going to be outnumbered 2000:1 by people who are absolutely tanked. They&#8217;re just gonna take any opportunity to warn people off drinking. I think they&#8217;re basically using rape as a tool to run an anti-alcohol campaign.</p>
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		<title>By: Evrybdy44</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evrybdy44</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:15:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Even mentioning that women need to be careful of how much they drink and so on is horrible. I hate it too. What I think I hate the most about it is that I get why it&#039;s being said. There is nothing a person could possibly do(drunk or otherwise) to &quot;ask&quot; to be raped, but for better or worse the idea that thinking about the situations a person puts themselves in isn&#039;t a bad idea. It shouldn&#039;t be necessary and the bulk of any focus should be on changing rapist behaviour and not that of a victim or potential victim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even mentioning that women need to be careful of how much they drink and so on is horrible. I hate it too. What I think I hate the most about it is that I get why it&#8217;s being said. There is nothing a person could possibly do(drunk or otherwise) to &#8220;ask&#8221; to be raped, but for better or worse the idea that thinking about the situations a person puts themselves in isn&#8217;t a bad idea. It shouldn&#8217;t be necessary and the bulk of any focus should be on changing rapist behaviour and not that of a victim or potential victim.</p>
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		<title>By: Han</title>
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		<dc:creator>Han</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 18:24:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Off topic, but I think worth sharing:
When I studied in Scotland last year, I really liked seeing the images from the This Is Not an Invitation to Rape Me campaign (http://www.thisisnotaninvitationtorapeme.co.uk/) around the town because they put so much emphasis on NOT blaming the victim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Off topic, but I think worth sharing:<br />
When I studied in Scotland last year, I really liked seeing the images from the This Is Not an Invitation to Rape Me campaign (<a href="http://www.thisisnotaninvitationtorapeme.co.uk/" rel="nofollow">http://www.thisisnotaninvitationtorapeme.co.uk/</a>) around the town because they put so much emphasis on NOT blaming the victim.</p>
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		<title>By: Yonmei</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yonmei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Four years ago Amnesty International published a report on &lt;a href=&quot;http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4453820.stm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;attitudes to rape in the UK&lt;/a&gt; that found evidence that a large proportion of people believe that a woman who is raped is wholly or partly to blame if she got drunk, behaved flirtatiously, or wore revealing clothing. 

Shortly afterwards, the report&#039;s point was proved by a case in which the judge instructed the jury to find the man not guilty, because although he had (&lt;a href=&quot;http://yonmei.insanejournal.com/tag/R%C3%BAairi+Dougal&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Rúairi Dougal&lt;/a&gt;, then a student at Cardiff, like the woman he raped) admitted that he had (in his part-time role as a security guard) accepted responsibility for a young woman who was drunk and incapable, to walk her safely home, and had then had sex with her in the corridor outside her room, he claimed she&#039;d consented ... and she admitted under oath that she was so drunk she couldn&#039;t remember. (On campus, apparently &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tamba2.org.uk/T2/2005/11/24/ruairi-dougal-a-decent-person/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Ruari Dougal was well-liked and regarded as a decent bloke&lt;/a&gt;, while the woman he raped was regarded as a liar and an attention-seeker.) So the judge directed the jury to acquit, because in the judge&#039;s world, if a woman was too drunk to &lt;i&gt;remember&lt;/i&gt; having been raped, that means it can&#039;t have been rape - even if the man who did it admits he had sex with someone for whom he had a duty of care, who was too drunk to give meaningful consent. Ruari Dougal was a high-publicity example of what&#039;s wrong with rape law in the UK.

Lesley is right: a campaign against rape has got to take account of the thinking that &quot;a woman too drunk to resist has consented&quot; that not only will be held by rapists, rapist&#039;s best buddies, and clueless guys, but by a large proportion of the survivors of rape, too. 

I found some quite surprising and awful responses to my journal posts, four years ago, from people I&#039;d known and liked, asserting that yes, sure, &lt;i&gt;everyone knew&lt;/i&gt; that for a woman, drinking in public was high-risk and that it was anti-sex and anti-freedom to say that a person &lt;i&gt;can be&lt;/i&gt; too drunk to give meaningful consent and that anyone who then has sex with that person is committing sexual assault/rape.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Four years ago Amnesty International published a report on <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4453820.stm" rel="nofollow">attitudes to rape in the UK</a> that found evidence that a large proportion of people believe that a woman who is raped is wholly or partly to blame if she got drunk, behaved flirtatiously, or wore revealing clothing. </p>
<p>Shortly afterwards, the report&#8217;s point was proved by a case in which the judge instructed the jury to find the man not guilty, because although he had (<a href="http://yonmei.insanejournal.com/tag/R%C3%BAairi+Dougal" rel="nofollow">Rúairi Dougal</a>, then a student at Cardiff, like the woman he raped) admitted that he had (in his part-time role as a security guard) accepted responsibility for a young woman who was drunk and incapable, to walk her safely home, and had then had sex with her in the corridor outside her room, he claimed she&#8217;d consented &#8230; and she admitted under oath that she was so drunk she couldn&#8217;t remember. (On campus, apparently <a href="http://www.tamba2.org.uk/T2/2005/11/24/ruairi-dougal-a-decent-person/" rel="nofollow">Ruari Dougal was well-liked and regarded as a decent bloke</a>, while the woman he raped was regarded as a liar and an attention-seeker.) So the judge directed the jury to acquit, because in the judge&#8217;s world, if a woman was too drunk to <i>remember</i> having been raped, that means it can&#8217;t have been rape &#8211; even if the man who did it admits he had sex with someone for whom he had a duty of care, who was too drunk to give meaningful consent. Ruari Dougal was a high-publicity example of what&#8217;s wrong with rape law in the UK.</p>
<p>Lesley is right: a campaign against rape has got to take account of the thinking that &#8220;a woman too drunk to resist has consented&#8221; that not only will be held by rapists, rapist&#8217;s best buddies, and clueless guys, but by a large proportion of the survivors of rape, too. </p>
<p>I found some quite surprising and awful responses to my journal posts, four years ago, from people I&#8217;d known and liked, asserting that yes, sure, <i>everyone knew</i> that for a woman, drinking in public was high-risk and that it was anti-sex and anti-freedom to say that a person <i>can be</i> too drunk to give meaningful consent and that anyone who then has sex with that person is committing sexual assault/rape.</p>
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		<title>By: Politicalguineapig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Politicalguineapig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Comrade Kevin: I totally agree. If I were raped, the last thing I would do is expect help from law enforcement. I&#039;d rather be put on trial for murder then testify as a rape survivor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Comrade Kevin: I totally agree. If I were raped, the last thing I would do is expect help from law enforcement. I&#8217;d rather be put on trial for murder then testify as a rape survivor.</p>
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