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    misha 3.18.2010 at 11:10 am |

    Great recap! Even the guy who writes the “Never Seen Lost” blog (the only other Lost recap I look forward to every week) said the theme of this week’s show was “misogyny”. Weird episode, and I hope they really do address all of the abusive themes brought up this week.

    http://neverseenlost.wordpress.com/2010/03/17/episode-8-of-the-final-season-of-lost/

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    Lauren O 3.18.2010 at 11:18 am |

    Yeah, Flocke “calming Claire down” was absurd. The attitude the show took toward it seemed to be “Sometimes bitches get crazy and you gotta smack ‘em.” And then he makes her go sit down (essentially in a time-out), and isn’t his dialogue like, “I’ll deal with you in a minute”? It couldn’t have been more blatantly paternalistic, and the show didn’t seem to be problematizing that at all. His reaction was shown as being exactly what Claire needed to apologize to Kate so they could share a hug accompanied by sappy amends-making music.

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    Jasie VanGesen 3.18.2010 at 11:40 am |

    SO spot on… and as a mother and a person with Bi-Polar I was totally creeped out by the “crazy mother” angle, but couldn’t pinpoint or articulate exactly what was bothering me and why while watching it… now I know why I saw red.

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    Claudia 3.18.2010 at 12:06 pm |

    I thought it was really ridiculous the way they had Charlotte find Sawyer’s Folder of Super Dark Memorabilia.

    “Can I have a t-shirt?”
    “Sure! Instead of getting one for you, I will instruct you to look through the drawer where I keep my most guarded secrets (but no t-shirts) and then I shall leave the room! I hope nothing happens!”

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    missjulied 3.18.2010 at 12:51 pm |

    While I completely agree with you on your misogany examples, I would like to point out that Charlotte was AWESOME when Sawyer showed up at her door and tried to charm her. “You blew it”, I believe she said. I was delighted with that.

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    Cara 3.18.2010 at 1:11 pm |

    Eh. See, I might be in the minority here, but I totally thought that Charlotte was purposely snooping. She kept digging through the draw even though it was clear there were no tee-shirts there, and seemed to purposely be going all the way to the bottom in the corners and sides to see if something interesting was in there. Sawyer’s reaction was a bit extreme, I will grant. But if I caught someone going through a folder I kept under a giant ass piles of clothes, and which was obviously there because I wanted it to be hidden, I’d probably kick them out, too. I hate snoops.

    On the other hand, I did love the “sad sunflower” remark.

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    Kat 3.18.2010 at 1:11 pm |

    I interpreted Smokey’s “mommy issues” in a different way–I had a theory that maybe as young immortals, Smokey and Jacob had vied for mom’s attention (where Mom is The Island). It’s still a fairly dysfunctional relationship, where Smokey just wants nothing more than to leave home, while Jacob is the one who feels compelled to be a caretaker. (I don’t think Jacob is the “good one” though. They’re both pretty messed-up.) And re: various dysfunctional moms, I guess I didn’t notice it as a theme (except in this episode) given the large number of characters on the show who have father issues (Jack, Claire, Locke, Sawyer, Kate, Miles, Penny, Ben, others who I can’t think of off the top of my head.) I just thought one of the themes of the show was Dysfunctional Parents.

    I wanted to break my TV when Smokey hit Claire.

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    Sheelzebub 3.18.2010 at 1:13 pm |

    Honestly, Flocke was a typical abuser. He manipulates Claire, lies to her, isolates her, she acts the way many would as a result of this, and then he says she’s “crazy” and probably not a good mother to drive a wedge between Kate and Claire.

    And I was very creeped out by Sawyer having sex with a perp/suspect/person of interest–with a freaking SWAT team outside, listening in. I mean. That’s not creepy and predatory at ALL.

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    Cara 3.18.2010 at 1:15 pm |

    And Kat, I don’t think that it was the fact that anyone had a mommy issue that we were upset about, either. Obviously daddy issues figure a lot more prominently. While we’d of course have to see the portrayal to be sure, I see nothing at all inherently wrong with a dysfunctional mother character. It’s the fact that it was specifically framed as “crazy mothers”.

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    Thom 3.18.2010 at 1:55 pm |

    I was fascinated by Sayid’s reaction…he had this look, not of evil, but of…being in a haze, like he was watching something on television.

    I believe NotLocke’s behaviour was supposed to make us very uncomfortable. I suspect it is supposed to put to rest any notion that NotLocke is really just a decent guy who wants to leave the Island.

    I am totally on board for Sady’s ABC lineup.

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    Holly 3.18.2010 at 2:22 pm |

    I kind of thought that the whole ‘crazy mother’ angle was a load of crap, specifically designed to make Kate think twice about her Claire rescue mission. It seemed like he is interested in getting Kate on his side, and is willing to sell Claire out to do it. I also wasn’t too bothered by the slapping, etc, because I don’t think we were supposed to think ‘good on you, Locke, that’ll calm her down’. I think we were supposed to be shocked and horrified; we were watching it from Kate’s POV and she was definitely not down with it.

    Love Sawyer so much, I think I’m the only person left in the entire viewing audience who welled up a bit when he found the cage sex dress. I felt a little pissed off that he had so much time with Charlotte in the Alt, if only because she has no connection to him on island at all. I’d rather have seen Juliet, Jack, Hurley, Christian, Ana-Lucia, anyone at all who he had spent time with. Obviously I wouldn’t have wanted to see him have sex with Hurley, Jack or Christian. Well, maybe Jack. Now that would have been a twist, Lost. Totally agree that having sex with a suspect’s wife while his team listen is weird on so many different levels. I like to think that this is his tactic with everybody though, and Miles et al just roll their eyes and let him get on with it.

    Richard next week! I’ve decided that I ship him and Ilana, so… get on that, show.

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    lesleyclaire 3.18.2010 at 2:44 pm |

    Cara, I agree with you that Charlotte was snooping through his drawer.
    Does anyone find it weird that they brought in NEW characters at this point?! I mean, Zoey AND the con-artist lady that Sawyer entraps? At first I thought it was the same person (that, at least, would make some sense in the twisted non-sensical LOST world) but no, there are two new players who, so far, have nothing to do with the series.

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    Sheelzebub 3.18.2010 at 2:57 pm |

    I thought Charlotte was snooping as well. He told her top right drawer, she goes for the top left, sees no T-shirts, finds the book, and GRINS. I’m ambivalent about him kicking her out–he flipped out, for sure, and it was 3:00 a.m., which is not exactly safe to go traipsing outside, but. . .if it was a guy rifling through my stuff, I’d probably do the same damn thing. Still, I was glad Charlotte kicked him to the curb after, if only because way too many TV shows and movies show men who act like bullies and then get all sad eyed so the little woman takes them back. Barf.

    I was more squicked by the obvious police misconduct in fucking a suspect. A–her lawyer will have a field day with that. B–I know the LAPD sucks, but you know? Wouldn’t someone be politic enough to say, um, Hay guise, if you do this and we tape it, etc. it’s really, really, really bad and we are so toast if the media gets wind of it.

    All kinds of bad with that.

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    Astraea 3.18.2010 at 2:58 pm |

    Did anyone else read the recap at Jezebel and want to explode with rage, re: what she did with the crazy mother angle?

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    Cara 3.18.2010 at 3:03 pm |

    Oh! Something I completely forgot in writing my analysis of the revenge against (real-)Sawyer plotline! When I was rewatching Season 5 before the final season started, I was just appalled — as in screaming “WHAT THE FUCK” at the television and to my husband, while flailing my arms wildly — when I noticed on the repeat viewing of the scene where we see young Sawyer writing his letter that the funeral for his parents is a joint funeral. There’s two coffins! I can’t possibly imagine what else was supposed to be going on there!

    And what the hell is that? I mean, seriously? I cannot get over it. Yes, married couple dies together in a car crash or something, you have a joint funeral. You know when you don’t? When one spouse murders the other. I have no words. No words. That really should have been my indication, as a matter of fact, that Darlton totally do not get it at all and obviously believe Sawyers reasoning about who was really to blame for their deaths.

    As for the sleeping with the suspect thing … yeah. That was pretty clearly a plot hole designed to make us temporarily think that the Sawyer we know is up to his old conning tricks. And then, bam! Twist! Only it wasn’t really thought through! Our bad! Yeah.

    And Astraea, I don’t read Jezebel, but I’m kind of afraid to go find that post now …

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    Astraea 3.18.2010 at 3:09 pm |

    Loved Sawyer and Miles, and Sawyer was looking pretty good. But yeah, boring episode, and poorly structured. All the new groups of people Lost introduced never bothered me before, but now that we have so little time left the introduction of the new sub people annoyed me.

    Were all those dead people Ajira passengers? Did we know there were other survivors hanging out?

    And what do you think FLocke wanted to actually happen to Ben if he chose to go to Hydra station? Was he hoping Ben would run into Sawyer? Did he actually plan to meet him there himself and truly was sending Sawyer to recon in preparation?

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    Astraea 3.18.2010 at 3:12 pm |

    Cara, the post at Jezebel is horrible and no one called it out as far as I can see. She calls the men with (allegedly) crazy mommy issues “sons of bitches” and thinks it’s a fun play on Sawyers catch phrase. A couple commenters took this up and discussed which mothers are “bitches.”

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    Hot Tramp 3.18.2010 at 3:32 pm |

    I feel alone in that I deeply enjoyed this episode. My favorite mystery, since the ARG, has been Charles Widmore and WTF he’s doing. Now we have Widmore! And hot Sawyer! In a sub together! Making vague and poorly negotiated deals that will probably lead to multiple double-crosses! Also, the Miles/Sawyer fanfic writes itself.

    Finally, I was really, really glad that Charlotte didn’t accept Sawyer’s apology. She saw that he has major issues and wants to stay far, far away from that. Smart woman, and a brand of smart woman we rarely see in popular culture. Usually, TV women are like Locke’s fiancee, forgiving seriously creepy shit because that’s our nurturing nature.

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    Michael Hussey 3.18.2010 at 5:01 pm |

    Considering Flocke committed genocide on the Temple, I’m not shocked by his horrible treatment of Claire. Flocke lied and assaulted Claire to achieve his purposes. (to win Kate’s confidence.) Jacob crashed two planes to bring the candidates. Humans are only pawns to Jacob and Flocke. Ben killing Jacob was one of the few things he did right. Hopefully, someone will put Flocke out of his misery.

    Jacob and Flocke created suffering to achieve their goals. The characters in Sideways universe are considerably more well-adjusted. That is because the Losties never encountered Jacob or Flocke. I’m wondering if Sideways universe is the real reality.

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    J.P. 3.18.2010 at 6:37 pm |

    Astraea, why is Jezebel’s blog on “Recon” and the “sons of bitches” angle “horrible,” as you put it. It’s well-written, insightful and quite humorous. I thoroughly enjoyed it. What is so horrible?

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    LC 3.19.2010 at 1:55 am |

    I also thought of this as “proof Flocke is a bad guy” kind of move. As has been pointed out, classic abuser behaviour. Thing is, I am not sure Flocke sees it like that. I think he thinks creepily paternalistic behaviour and killing those who are “out to get him” is perfectly normal. Like he doesn’t realize that protecting the island (and the world) from him really is important because he’s a vicious bastard.

    Like all great heels, he thinks he is the good guy.

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    Astraea 3.19.2010 at 8:08 am |

    LP, because she is calling the “crazy” women bitches.

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    Astraea 3.19.2010 at 8:08 am |

    oops, JP I meant.

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    B. Adams 3.19.2010 at 9:04 am |

    “SADY: Some of this is addressed below, when we talk about how The Smoke Monster Was Born Of A Crazy Lady Smoke Monster Thus Has Issues, but… was anyone else like, REALLY BOTHERED by the intense abusive/paternalistic tone of the scene where Locke “calms Claire down?” First he grabs her (okay, since she needs to be separated from Kate), and then he whomps the hell out of her (NOT OKAY, by this point she has been separated from Kate), then he takes this very Daddy-is-disappointed-in-you tone when he tells her that violence is “completely inappropriate.” Like, the resonance in that scene, to my by-this-point-known-to-be-hypersensitive eyes, was that sometimes women get all irrational and if you, A Man, just smack them around and talk to them like children, you can gain control of the situation. Which… UNCOOL.”

    I just had to say that I completely agree with the quote above. I thought there were a couple of violence-against-women points that stood out: when Locke hits Claire, and when Sawyer blows up on Charlotte because she discovers his binder with stuff about the original Sawyer.

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    Gina 3.19.2010 at 9:13 am |

    Isn’t the whole message in this episode not The Danger of Crazy People, but The Danger of Manipulative Men? It seemed clear that Flocke was using Locke’s history to connect with Kate. And Claire’s craziness doesn’t seem at all about mental illness stereotypes, but an isolated person manipulated by a creature. Is there any indication that Flocke is a human? His character may be misogynistic, but is that the same thing as an endorsement of his methods by the writers? This whole episode read like a warning of paternalistic, Gaslight behavior, not “Women! Aren’t They Crazy?!”

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    Sheelzebub 3.19.2010 at 9:26 am |

    Gina, that’s a good point. And now I wonder if Kate’s skepticism is fueled by this–her father was abusive, after all. She’s afraid of Claire, it sounds reasonable that Claire shouldn’t have access to Aaron because she’s “crazy,” but she’s acting the way any person who’s been isolated and deceived and manipulated would act. I hope Kate stays skeptical.

    And was it me, or did she seem freaked out by Sawyer’s line about “you and me will get off this Island on the sub, Freckles”? Like, he’s reverting back to old Sawyer and she wasn’t all that okay with it. I think if it wasn’t for Claire, she’d have bolted by now.

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    Astraea 3.19.2010 at 10:01 am |

    And was it me, or did she seem freaked out by Sawyer’s line about “you and me will get off this Island on the sub, Freckles”? Like, he’s reverting back to old Sawyer and she wasn’t all that okay with it. I think if it wasn’t for Claire, she’d have bolted by now.

    This was one of the few episodes in a long, long time where I wasn’t annoyed by Kate and actually had some sympathy for her. She is surrounded by people acting strangely, people she recognizes but suddenly doesn’t know. It makes sense if she’s a little freaked out by Sawyer’s behavior, wondering if he’s like the rest of them and whether she can trust him.

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    Raznor 3.19.2010 at 10:04 am |

    Ilana: How did Sady die?
    Miles (closes eyes, concentrates on the ashes): “Recon” killed her. With boredom.
    Ben: No that’s impossible! He’s lying!
    Ilana: Are you sure?
    Miles: It was standing over her with a boring dagger, so yeah, pretty sure.

    (sorry cheesy I know)

    One thing I noted is that when Locke told Ben that they’d be on Hydra island, he was lying. So did Locke know that Widmore was there? Was the point to get Widmore to kill Ben, and maybe get Ben to kill Ilana in the process?

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