Bint Alshamsa

Sometimes, I’m a jerk

Yeah, that’s right. I can be a big jerk sometimes. I’m not proud of it. I’m just not in denial about it, either. You’re probably a jerk sometimes, too. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that as an insult. I think that there may be a lot of good reasons why you’re a jerk [...]

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A Dollop of Schadenfreude

Is it okay if I take a few minutes out of my day and lul over this? There’s nothing funnier than watching Republican candidates have to deal with the mob mentality that they’ve been fomenting over the past few elections. Seeing this tinfoil hatter ranting about conspiracies, followed by watching the sheeple in the audience [...]

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The Oppressor Within

As a child, I always dreamed of getting away from Louisiana. After I matriculated from high school I got the opportunity to do it. I tried out Los Angeles for a while. A few years later, I found myself in Evanston, Illinois, just one “L” ride away from Chicago. A year later, I spent some [...]

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Thanks for the Memories

I have had a marvelous time posting here this week. Thank you so much for the engaging discussions. I’m really thankful that the wonderful folks at Feministe provided me with this opportunity to talk about a lot of issues that I think are rarely addressed outside of people of color and people with disabilities communities. [...]

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Handicapped Sex Lives?

Hey y’all. I’m bint alshamsa from over at My Private Casbah and I’m really excited to be guest-blogging at Feministe this week. I just realized that i forgot to introduce myself before I posted my first entry. Sorry about that! Well, let’s just jump right into this, shall we? I have a dirty little secret: [...]

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Modern Surgery and Patriarchy

Right now, JusticeWalks has a post on her blog called “Anxiety” where she discusses her feelings about an upcoming procedure she will be undergoing. In it, she makes a connection between the body trauma associated with surgeries and the experiences of those women of color from our past who have suffered under patriarchal systems. She [...]

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Get It Straight, Sil Vous Plait

What the deal with how Elizabeth Edwards is being portrayed in the reports about her husband’s philandering? It might not seem like a big deal to other people but, I just want to yell into the television every time I hear someone refer to Elizabeth Edwards as “terminally ill”. This woman is not dying, at [...]

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I Wouldn’t Want To Live Like That! Meh, On Second Thought…

“Misery can only be removed from the world by painless extermination of the miserable.” -Gerhard Hoffman, Nazi propagandist in defense of direct medical killing of all those possessing serious medical disorders Those first few years of having Systemic Lupus Erythematosus were pretty challenging. Before that I was just “sickly”, but knowing that it was a [...]

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