Online Dating: Permission to Be a Judgemental Bitch AND an Opportunity to Date Outside Your Comfort Zone
This post was inspired by Jill’s previous post, Online Dating: The Most Depressing, Or Only as Depressing as Regular Dating?, which you should read. Some of what I’m going to say may have been covered in the comments on Jill’s post, but I didn’t read them, so I’m just going to go ahead and write [...]
...read moreToday I Do Not Feel Like Superwoman
Whoa, hey there, Feministe! I’ve been doing a great job with this whole guest blogging thing, I know. Actually, I’ve been beating myself up about it pretty much constantly since my last post. Fortunately, it has finally dawned on me: I am not superwoman. After I wrote the post on self-sabotage last summer, I got [...]
...read moreYo, yo, yo!
Hey there, Feministers! I just wanted to write a quick note and introduce myself. I’m Tyla, and I’m going to be guest blogging here for the next two weeks. So thrilled to be here – thanks for having me. I did a short stint here last summer, writing about self-sabotage and the reasons we do [...]
...read moreSweet Serendipity
Funny that my spiral into self-reflection (and slight self-blaming) coincided with my time as a guest blogger here at Feministe. Actually, it isn’t funny at all – things in my life usually tends to work in an oddly serendipitous manner and having you all here to help me reflect has been incredible. From what’s been [...]
...read moreIt’s Money, Honey
Firstly, thanks to everyone who commented on my post about self-sabotage. So many of you had interesting things to say (I’m definitely going to get checked out for ADHD) and the feedback really contributed to my ability to think about how to start making positive changes and get rid of self-defeating habits. It also got [...]
...read moreHey you, get out of my way!
I’ve always been a high achiever. One of the only people in my high school class to move farther than five hours away for college, I attended a top ten school then moved to New York to start my real-person life. I’m simultaneously proud of what I’ve accomplished (woohoo! Go, me!) and frustrated about where [...]
...read moreThings will be calmer by then…
Hey there, Feministers! I’m Tyla, and the kind ladies here at Feministe have asked me to guest blog for two weeks. I’m beyond thrilled to be here, even though I’m a little late. You see, my guest blogging stint was supposed to start on Monday. When I was asked earlier this summer what weeks would [...]
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