Category Archives: Dating

On Being “The Other Woman”

More Dear Prudie: Continue reading

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Bad Advice: Should I Tell My Cousin’s Boyfriend That She Was Assigned Male at Birth?

NO. No you should not. No no no no no definitely not. Continue reading

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Hello! Thanks for Having Me.

Hi There! For those who don’t know me already, I’m Anna–or perhaps my nom du tweet, @agoodcuppa. I am a writer (no way, the guest blogger is a writer!), a social justice activist and rabbel rouser, and an unapologetic feminist … Continue reading

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The He-Man Woman-Haters Club

So you’re thinking about looking for love on the internet. Continue reading

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High School Cougars

Shorter New York Times: High-school-age girls who date boys a year or two younger are predatory and suspect. It’s more normal for them to date college-age men, because of course there is nothing at all sketchy about an adult man in college who wants to date a 15-year-old. Continue reading

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Men on the Internet Would Like to Have Your Babies

Online dating: The worst, or the absolute worst? Continue reading

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Would you like a racist boyfriend?

Because there are so many racist boyfriends to choose from! (“I’m not racist! I just appreciate ethnic women!” -all of the boyfriends). Continue reading

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Hey girl.

Single PUAs are on the prowl, and they would like you to know that they like your headband. Bitch. Continue reading

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Seeking Asian Female

Gross white man seeks Asian female. Ends up with a real human being. Drama ensues.
Continue reading

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“Confessions of a PUA Chaser” is OUT now! Also: Thank you, Feministe.

Pickup artists. Continue reading

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February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

And with all the coverage of Rihanna / Chris Brown (which I will write about later, but ugh, can we please stop blaming her for “being a bad role model” or whatever and maybe put the responsibility for beating another human being on the person who did the beating?), it’s a pertinent conversation. The stats are disturbing: Continue reading

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Some Women Actually Doing Ok

The old myth that educated women are less marriageable? False! Continue reading

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