The deficient single woman
Chally is a former Feministe staffer. She writes at Zero at the Bone. I’m really quite troubled by the centring of romantic/sexual relationships at the expense of all other ways of organising lives. Right now, I’m going to explore this in terms of single women being seen as deficient. I’ve seen so many divorced and [...]
...read moreIt’s ain’t easy being television’s most eligible transsexual bachelorette…
I don’t get the gay, gay gay Logo channel, but thanks to the power of the Internet, I was able to purchase and download their latest entry into the reality-dating show category: Transamerican Love Story, starring a trans woman and eight bachelors who vie for her heart. Before you slap your forehead, know that the [...]
...read moreHooray
I am more desired than 31% of people on Spark. How did I get to such lofty heights of desirability? In total, you were viewed 1 time and no people expressed interest in you. Thank you, random viewer!
...read moreSleeping with the Enemy, Part 3
In which we discuss all those swirly questions about who I fuck(ed), why it matters, and whether or not we should even be discussing it at all. (For background on my sitch, and an ongoing discussion of the role of men in feminism, check out Part 1. For a not-as-irrelevant-as-it-seems-at-first tangent on what to do [...]
...read moreSleeping with the Enemy, Part 2
I know I promised to make Sleeping with the Enemy, Part 2 about what happens in your community, family & culture when you go from over a decade of queer relationships to dating a straight cisgender man, but honestly, I’m fighting off some narsty illness that’s swollen my throat nearly shut and made me run [...]
...read moreI’m Never Getting Married
I actually don’t know if that’s true, but the closer I get to standard marrying age, the less I think it’ll ever happen — first because I think marriage is kind of a crock, and second because I’m becoming fairly certain that there just isn’t anyone out there who I want to be forever bound [...]
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